Chloe and Theodore
About two years ago, we adopted a brother and sister, Chloe and Theodore. Their parents are no longer in their lives. Beautiful ladies and I are now their only parents. I remember how they kept themselves and barely left their room when we bought them home for the first time.
A few days ago, they felt comfortable enough and familiar with their new home. Sometimes their behavior can only be considered independent at best, and even worse is rude. I hope they are more obedient. Just like you called them, but I have already learned,
"They only respond when they respond to their thoughts."
Like most children, when they feel hungry or decide they want our attention, they will come to us, but when they decide to do so, they will come again. After all, we have made Mother's Day for them, and Father's Day comes to them like any other day. Just a little bit of recognition and appreciation will be great.
Next month will be our two years of cute tabby cats: Chloe and Theodore. Chloe is a stylish blend of grey and black. Theodore is a majestic golden color. I grew up to be a dog owner, but I have grown into a tabby that loves me, despite the occasional nasty hair balls, the cat hair on the clothes and the struggle of random siblings of all time during the day and night. I think their behavior is fascinating, and their unpredictability adds a touch of excitement to our family.
Stepfather's dissatisfaction
I have heard stepchildren protesting rude and disrespectful stepchildren. I have heard complaints about their spouse's upbringing and excessive tolerance. I and all of their spouses and stepchildren will become very familiar with the painful details. Defects, personality defects and bad behavior.
If their children are more respectful and accepting, I fully agree with how good they will be in their mixed family. If their spouses can't make their children more authoritarian, how can their relationship not become a nervous love. While these changes will certainly improve the dynamics of their mixed family, both stepfathers and I can force or force them to change.
It needs to be their idea
Like my tabby, your wife and stepchild will only change when their ideas appear. You insist that changing them to meet your expectations is actually disrupting their ability to change. As long as your thoughts are not their thoughts. You must let go of your expectations and let them accept the changes in their lives as their ideas. Understanding and accepting this fact will bring new peace and quiet to your life.
Change yourself
If I dare to focus on your own flaws, sins and character defects, then you should focus on the flaws of your mixed family, not what you really control. Your example of solving your own shortcomings can act as a catalyst to inspire the changes you expect in a mixed family.
Orignal From: Anyway, who is this idea?
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