In the vague sad experience, there are some things that are impossible to match. I recently entered the second experience about ambiguity.
But let's explore the ambiguous loss and complex sadness so that we understand them.
A fuzzy loss is a loss that occurs without ending or understanding. This may involve unfair experiences due to continued losses. The loss of jealousy is a land of spiritual and emotional unmannedness. Complex grief occurs when we "get into trouble" and cannot overcome the pain. The sad work we are engaged in has not yet resolved our grief. Given the most severe sadness of up to twelve months - usually resolved within a year - complex grief can last for many years and in some cases can last for a whole year. However, if one is diligent and surrenders enough to separate mental distraction from sadness, there is always hope of healing.
Many people have experienced complex dissatisfaction because for whatever reason, whether it is impossible to deal with or not to deal with compound loss problems for many years. The result of complex grief is often anxiety and depression, although not always. Similarly, ambiguous losses can cause us to fall into a persistent and fatal state of helplessness, which can lead to depression and depression.
Many of us have experienced embarrassing losses; older parents with Alzheimer's disease; marriages that have not worked for years [especially abuse or rude marriage]; day-to-day unsustainable income Life in the land; when my dear person has four stages of cancer, he lives on the edge; the importance of waiting for death is coming; when the child is violated and continues to be abused, he suddenly and steadily loses his innocence.
For many of us, there is also an urgent problem of complexity and sorrow, that is, our frustration and anxiety [or perseverance of either or both] actually covers the real existence of complex dynamic networks. Sad question. Grief is often the clearest invitation to adapt to maturity through responsibility for our lives. It is always longer than we hope.
We may never learn how to deal with sorrow. But the beauty of investing in the right way to deal with losses is that we have a model that can help and apply to the losses that come with it. The only correct way to accept is to do all the right things as much as possible. Coping and growing always involve pain.
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The sorrow of sorrow shares the ambiguous loss and complex sorrow.
The sorrow of sorrow contains a new normality that has not yet arrived. Losses continue to experience, leading to continued pain. When we learn to tolerate unresolved sorrow, the growth of resilience is an opportunity. There is no easy way to do hard work, but God's grace can bring experience.
©2014 SJ Wickham.
Orignal From: Blurred loss and complicated sadness
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