Warning: Marrying into a step-by-step family can result in: ankle bites, thresholds, split headaches, temporary amnesia, high blood pressure, toothache, sore throat [too screaming at the child], temporary paralysis, sexual deprivation and molars, to say the least .
We all know that stepping into the family is a challenge. Most of us can't predict it. As I shared on other occasions, before I decided to get married, I had been with my husband for many years, and we even bought a house together before the important day. However, marriage behavior still changes the dynamics and thoughts of challenges that most people did not anticipate. Why did marriage change things? Is it because the children are cruel? Is the former evil? Is your new spouse a fool? And they all unite to stop you from getting any happiness in life? No, at least probably not. Marriage changed everything because it brought the ultimate polarity to the previous family structure. Any fantasies that children may have their parents reunited are thrown out the window, and the new spouse is the reason. Marriage also means that official ownership changes may lead to competition with the predecessor, and you don't want to be part of it.
However, there is one thing that can make a bad day intolerable, and a good day will be beautiful. What I am saying is to make sure you marry the right person first. I married the right person for us at the right time, and for the right reasons. I am married for love and admit that we all praise each other. He made me laugh all the time, made me want to be a better person, and I did the same for him [at least for most days]. It is vital that we have a strong relationship between us and be able to cope with all the changes that have taken place overnight after we get married.
So, what can you do to overcome the challenges awaiting you and your love of life, rather than returning to the divorce court in the next few years?
Ask yourself - have you married the right person? Are they ready to get married? What do I need for this marriage? Do I understand? Give 30 minutes to answer these questions. If you find that the step family life has made you ready to escape from your home, you may want to start with the most important questions - whether it is the right relationship to guide the family. In addition to understanding the answers to these questions, no other changes will affect your entire family.
wish all the best,
Noraford
Orignal From: The surgeon should give a warning to Stepfamilies
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