What is success? Am I successful? Sometimes we may ask ourselves this illusory question, which will lead us to nowhere to go. In the eyes of your friends and relatives, you may be successful in wealth, status, and recognition, but deep down in your heart, you may feel that you have the emptiness, because many people believe that these standards are the standard of success.
If you ask a thousand people what is successful, you will get a thousand different answers. So others think that success is not that important. For you, what matters is that you must personally feel successful regardless of other people's thoughts or feelings. I once read a book called "Psychological Control Theory," written by Maxwell Martz, who wrote some success criteria, which I personally think is the standard that individuals should look at for success.
In his book, he wrote his successful acronym
S-direction sense
U-shaped understanding
C-Courage
C-charity
E-self-esteem
S-self confidence
S-Self accepted
When you look at what Maxwell has shared on successful acronyms, you'll notice that the standards he shares are internal rather than external; it's more about our personal character building than material possession. If anyone can understand that having wealth around the world does not make a person more successful than a courageous and confident person, and has a sense of guidance that can lead to charity and help and build for those in need throughout life. And the self-respect and self-acceptance of the poor, people will realize that success is not material possession, but self-realization and legacy of the world.
Most people believe that to be successful, they must have material wealth or personal status, such as wealth, fame and power seen around the world. In recent years, for the benefit of our next generation, these super-rich people have a call and motivation to donate wealth for charity and charity. What makes some of these super-wealths change their minds and separate the material wealth they spend in their lives to achieve and accumulate? We may not be as noble as Mother Teresa and all these philanthropists, but we can also follow the success criteria shared by Maxwell Maltz, leaving the legacy to remember by our children.
Orignal From: Successful UNCTAD
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