Adapting to the trend today means that it is necessary to live in the chaos of staying with us for a while. How good and comfortable we are, this is a sign of our inner strength, self-esteem and self-confidence. Those who do not have the confidence and the inner strength to deal with chaos will soon fall behind, frustrated or overstressed. With the right tools, everyone is able to develop physical, mental and spiritual existence, thereby enhancing confidence, understanding and the effective and overall use of personal abilities.
Personal powers follow the following:
[a] There is a natural feeling of self, not dependent on what you think others think,
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[b] Find or ask what you need to know to accomplish your work or mission.
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[c] Being able to listen to comments and criticisms and actively pursue until a method is found that solves the problem in an upright manner and does not have emotional attachment to the outcome,
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[d] Finally, take care of your own needs. By doing so, you can better maintain your energy and self-worth, and you are free to share and provide others with what they might need at the time.
Few people fill their personal strength as a gift at birth. What we have grown up is a variety of ideas, belief systems, and misconceptions about ourselves and others. As we grow and integrate with others in our social and work, these patterns and attitudes are manifested and it is easy for us to get into turmoil because we are not concentrated. We are inconsistent with the working atmosphere and ourselves, and stress is the inevitable result.
The business community has begun to recognize the pressure of employees and is striding to help. Counselors, massage therapists, other personal therapies, and even the gym are added to the work environment. However, these are all cosmetic, no environment is pleasant, full of energy and support - even fun.
For the past thirty-five years, I have had the privilege of working with large and small businesses, charities, college students and teachers, as well as executives, managers and salespeople in the performing arts field. As a consultant, I noticed some patterns that emerged in the professional field:
We work hard.
There is a concept that "there must be different people in the work." We leave a comfortable home environment where we can talk and interact naturally and easily. We are born masters and hostesses, sensitively dealing with others and understanding what is happening around us. However, where we believe to be professional or work-related, the actions we take are based on business perceptions, appropriate role models, some academic environments from academic, military or dictatorial, and lack of basic communication skills. We fall into the trap of playing a role rather than ourselves, and then try to create something artificial to match our perception of "should".
2. Can teach basic communication and relationship skills, but it is ignored.
Although the company has begun to develop management in this area, it is rarely done at the employee level. In the induction training, few employees receive adequate communication skills training. Either assume that these skills already exist or are reserved for managing development plans.
3. Words ' Mentors or counselors may be more appropriate than managers.
If you want to know how you look, look at the people below you because they will like you. "They want your work and see your example as a model to follow.
4. Require people to make changes without giving any specific tools to implement the changes.
During the regular evaluation period, people will hear the following general comments: ' Your teamwork needs improvement, & you need to communicate better. It is possible to achieve this change before a person knows what needs to be changed, especially how to do it. A person with reasonable self-respect will have a mental problem or do some detective work to develop a specific solution to the problem. However, many people are too shy to ask questions, but leave their own equipment to solve the problem.
As we enter the 21st century, professional men and women need specific and practical tools to communicate communication skills and personal development. These things can be learned at school, however, it is often the "difficult school" that teaches us these things.
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