Today I read Napoleon Hill and W. Clement Stone's book "Success through a positive mental attitude." This is a very good and inspiring book. The main idea is that everyone has a "amulet" labeled PMA or NMA. It represents our attitude towards creating life, also known as our thoughts. And usually this attitude can be flipped: positive mentality [PMA] or negative psychological attitude [NMA]. Today I want to talk about what a negative attitude is.
NMA or negative psychological attitudes are focusing on what is expected to happen worse in life. It's easy to focus on the negative things in life, not on the positive things in life. why? Every one of us wants what we don't have is human nature, such as:
- wealth
- happy
- relationship
- friendship
- Ideal home
- Dream car
- skinny
- muscular
- reputation
- Confidence
These are just things that people want but don't have. Have a negative psychological attitude and then go further. People who are always in distress will have a hard time freeing themselves from the hole. In addition, they found reasons why they could not get what they could not have and felt reasoned.
People with negative psychological attitudes will get used to the following phrases:
- I can not......
- This is very difficult to do...
- impossible...
- impossible...
- This is his fault...
- This is her fault...
- They need to change...
- I can't change...
- Everyone else is very talented...
- I was born with this situation...
Now, these people with negative psychological attitudes have no confidence in their own affairs. Moreover, they must survive in a world they think is a difficult one; they usually raise a defense for others to accept.
- cunning
- Too radical
- greedy
- Selfish
- in vain
- immoral
- stubborn
- violence
- hate
- envy
Lack of self-confidence is a trait of a negative psychological attitude. This is inside you. The things listed above take the conditions to another level, not only attracting negative effects on themselves, but also using it to give others and ultimately cancel the success.
Those who give up negative attitudes to others will sooner or later realize that the future will return to them through one of the most powerful and negative emotions that once allowed you to eat from the inside out - this is guilt.
You can achieve success through a positive psychological attitude that comes from a more positive way of thinking, usually bringing happiness, or may be considered a failure of a negative psychological attitude. What is produced in negative thinking usually leads to damage or disaster.
People with negative psychological negatives lose opportunities every day because they see what they see; they turn a blind eye to the fact that one has no chance. Most of the time, opportunities are not "seen." A person creates an opportunity in his mind that becomes an opportunity in real life.
So, take some time now to reassess yourself. Pretend that you are holding an "invisible amulet" everywhere. It is located on one side or the other. Be aware of yourself. Are you more optimistic or pessimistic? If you feel that you are more pessimistic, you must deal with your negative psychological attitude, turning it into a PMA or a positive psychological attitude will never be too late. I will talk more tomorrow.
Orignal From: Amulet - Negative Psychological Attitude
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