In 1985, my high school news lecturer encouraged me to spend time researching the statistics and overall impact of my father's absence. She knows that I have never seen my father, and I am working hard to solve this problem. As a young man with wisdom and motivation, she is very confident in me and promotes herself in a way that gives me the opportunity to escape poverty and mediocrity, which is quickly becoming the norm near my home. However, she knew that it was easy to get rid of my father's influence.
She feels that dealing with this problem according to my conditions will give me a platform, I need to control the demons that bother me. She is also married to my football coach, both of whom understand my game and have an interest in me beyond the football field or classroom. I am very grateful for this day. For the coach and Mrs. Leonard, I said, "Thank you!"
Undoubtedly, I conducted the necessary research and allegedly wrote a full-text article on this topic, which gave birth to a lifelong journey to understand the enormous impact of absenteeism on social culture.
I don't know if there has been a time when the fate of men is far behind them. In my life or in the recorded history, I can't recall the negative effects of the capricious movement of those who have been entrusted to care for a whole generation.
People have found an appropriate measure to give birth and give up their offspring. Even Christians are not responsible.
As a minister, I am very satisfied to solve the epidemic of my father. The Bible clearly tells a person who avoids respecting his filial responsibility.
If someone does not provide his relatives to his relatives, especially his own family, he does not believe in this belief [because it does not bring fruit] and is worse than the unbelievers [fulfilling their obligations in these matters]. . [5:8 AMP in advance]
Unfortunately, as protectors, providers and leaders have given up on the positions we have appointed. We are tired of selfishness. In the process, we let a whole generation fend for themselves without any masculine guidance or supervision. In order to exacerbate this problem, we continue to claim that we are believers, with the slightest hint that we have made our faith a dark circle in our ego.
I call this parent-free IFS [Invisible Father Syndrome] an epidemic. IFS is one of the most devastating forces in today's society. We are dealing with a generation of young people who are lost without identity and live in an environment where they have no self-worth. If we do not act now, we will find that this country will gradually fall into the abyss of moral decay.
"But if someone does not provide his own, especially in his family, he denies faith and is worse than unbelievers." 1 Timothy 5:8
This passage describes the special responsibilities of the family that God has set, especially those in their homes [ie their wives and children]. I have experienced the devastating power of IFS and can prove its uncontrollable grip.
Where is my father? Why is he not here? Does he love me? These are just some of the problems that have arisen since I was a child. Look, I never knew my father; I saw my father at his funeral for the first time. I remember it seemed to be yesterday. When the coffin fell to the ground, any chance of establishing a long-term relationship with the father disappeared before my eyes. I was fourteen at the time. For most of my life, I struggled with many demons, trying to catch the fact that I never knew my father. The end of this moment engraved the pain in my heart.
After my father died, I was sure that I was very good. I told myself that I can do well without a father, but the reality is different. Although I was raised by my great-grandparents and provided a caring and nurtured environment, I could not get rid of the heartache of not knowing who my father is or better, and why my father chose not to participate. My life. Although I was very early in my childhood, I still lack the ability to understand the environment that surrounds me. I have searched in many ways to understand how a person has children, rather than having a slight concern about their happiness. Through my brothers and sisters and other family members, I started to learn a lot about my father, which in many ways even confused me. When you deal with this pain, you form an image of a person at the center of pain. The problem is my father; the account of someone else is not a bad person. This only makes me more frustrated because it leaves the same problems as before. why?
I mentioned this fact, I was raised by my great-grandparents, both of which are related to everything in the future; my grandfather was in 1992 with my grandmother in 2010. I cultivated like my grandparents, and even they did not completely eliminate the pain they felt because of their father's absence.
One of the things I am most grateful to my grandparents is to introduce me to Christ. By continually studying biblical teachings and consistent teaching, I have established personal relationships with Christ, which is the true foundation of Christianity. The Bible says: "Train a child in the way he should go. When he is old, he will not leave it." [Proverbs 22:6]. My grandparents live and operate on this principle every day.
My personal relationship with Christ enabled me to get rid of the pain and difficulty of not knowing the father of the earth; it gave me access to my Father, which provided me with strength and stability to triumphantly end the vicissitudes of life.
Unfortunately, my situation is by no means an anomaly in today's society. In the past few decades, the number of unfamiliar families has grown exponentially. As a man, we find that giving birth and giving up our offspring is acceptable. The inherent pride and responsibility that the father once had for their offspring has been replaced by a strong and permanent irresponsibility. Mothers are often forced to take on the responsibility of playing a dual role at home.
Like many others, I am the victim of the "invisible father syndrome". I am empirical evidence of the adverse effects of living in the absence of a father on the ground. The above statement does not mean that the absence of a father can lead to failure, because many children grow up without the presence of a father, but rise to greatness. I have overcome this too, but I can attribute every success and every victory to my relationship with Christ, my Lord and the Savior.
As we move forward, I will try to resolve the crisis of absent fathers from their origins to the only solution; everyone succumbs to God's will and replaces him as a leader, provider, protector, qualifier and habit. The status of the person.
"And don't obey the world, but change it through the renewal of your thoughts, and you can prove the good, acceptable, and perfect will of God." [Romans 12:2]
Unfortunately, we have not done enough in this ethereal journey. We are called the leader, an example of a lost world that will be changed. According to 1 Peter 2:9, we are God's special and chosen people, but we are hardly distinguished from those who do not believe. When I say that we want to distinguish ourselves from unbelievers, I am not saying that we should do it in a condescending way, but in a way that illuminates and reveals the true Christian life. The integrity of the Christian must be a beacon to guide those who are lost in Christ. However, as long as the Christian's position and position are not clear, he will continue to abandon his status as a leader and invalidate it.
Honestly, the world is exhausted by the tastes of Christians; what they need is a proven blueprint. They need to be able to see the lives of believers and see the difference in their relationship with God. Isaiah 29:13 warns against using only the lips to serve, not to respect God from the heart.
"These people approached me with their mouths and respected me with their lips, but their heat was far from me. [Isaiah 29:13]
When we honor God from the heart, we give up selfishness and succumb to His will for our lives. God's will for our lives will never involve fathers and abandon our descendants. God's attitude toward his father is so consistent as a reference point to describe his relationship with us.
When God shows himself as a father, we find that he is consistent in his love, always exists and is an uninterrupted provider. More than once in the Bible, God promises that he will never leave us or leave us; he promises that he will take care of us when all others fail. In God, we have found the perfect example of patriarchy: reliability, authenticity, consistency, and most importantly unconditional love. However, in all aspects that God provides for the father's blueprint, we are very short-lived in terms of the love, stability, and security that men need to provide our children, so that they can fully develop into the extraordinary young women and men that God wants.
We are rapidly approaching an active and current father will be an abnormal rather than normal era. A visible father has become a project for many people, not a normal expectation...
Orignal From: Invisible Father: Reversing the Curse of the Fatherless Generation
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