Spoiled and rot
Most people have experienced a child who loses his temper at some point. When children go out shopping with their parents, we often see these little tyrannical events. The child wants something the parent refuses to offer, and the child responds to the emotional explosion. Children are not born with patience and understanding. These are the virtues they have learned. When a child breaks out of a way that is not suitable for oneself, we as a bystander often think that "if that is my child, I will solve this problem as soon as possible." We are often plagued by the fact that children's parents do little to regain control, and they feel ashamed when we see that they succumb to the child's desire to appease him.
When I saw a tantrum horse, I felt the same. A horse is easily rotted by its owner. The saddest part of the situation is that the owner does this in the name of love with the good intentions of the heart.
By "destroying" your horse you will only let him fall into bad behavior. I talked earlier in the book about how humans let horses think and feel like humans. We assume that they follow the same emotional rules. We believe that we must constantly love them and feed them to prove to them how much we care about.
I even heard people making excuses for their horses, just as the mother did as badly as her children. "Oh, he has a bad day, he usually doesn't like it." There are no bad days for horses. This is one of the great things about horses, no matter how externally they are, how reliable they are. A horse may move a little bit at high temperatures, but if you let him go faster, he will. Under zero conditions, my horse will easily pass through the snow instead of crossing the grass in the spring. They are very strong and reliable in nature.
When you see the horse's eruption, not because he has a bad day, but because he is spoiled in some way, shape or form.
There is an exception to this rule, a horse suffering from some kind of pain. I made a mistake, carrying my horse and forgetting to make sure her mane was not under the mat. She became very restless during her riding. Twitching her tail, not paying attention, acting as if she was irritated and cranky. I stopped to check everything, but I didn't find a reason for her discomfort. I always felt her muscles twitching on her muscles as if she were getting rid of flies, so I thought maybe a horsefly bit her. When I looked down, I saw her mane being pulled back tightly under the saddle pad and yanking it every step of the way. She responded to the pain. Once I solved the problem, she returned to the normal and reliable self.
If the horse that usually performs well starts to adapt, please check your discomfort first. Maybe the girdle pinches him, there is a burr on the saddle pad, or the horsefly bites him.
If a horse has the habit of throwing a fit, then he may be spoiled and need to be corrected and re-entered into a follower's follower state. A horse in compliance will not be fit. He can't, it's impossible. Only a horse and boss who feel that they are under control will be good at or try to dominate a misbehaving person. The spoiled horse is an aggressive horse. He will try to push his master, just like a tyrannical child. He tried to get his master to do what he wanted.
Hummer is the main cause of behavior problems. Marking that the horse is spoiled...
Enthusiastic
In an aggressive horse's mind, it can make its owner bark and pull him around, even if he wants to drag him. He can be in the owner's space, and if he doesn't move, he can even knock him down. When the owner does not follow his leadership or long-term obey his wishes, he can bite his master. No matter what he does, he wants to have a kind of enjoyment, he just wants to have one. If you don't give it to him, he will put his nose in his pocket and take it away. In his opinion, he is the boss.
enthusiastic attitude
This aggressive horse will mature into an aggressive horse, which is only a matter of time. Soon, he was biting, accusing and kicking anyone who prevented him from wanting. If he doesn't want to be dealt, he will throw a suitable one, and he will be completely out of control. Usually a submissive person runs around to tell him that he is a good boy and that his mother will give him some apples.
Humans cannot understand that horses will not regain a good reward in excessive indulgence. Everything is terrible. This is the worst thing you can do with a horse. You must try to find a balance.
Sometimes we do it ourselves, sometimes it is done before the horse becomes us. No matter who did it, it must end now. If you have been destroying your horse, stop it and learn a new way to reward him, which will have the positive impact you will enjoy.
Rule #1: Unless he does this with a compliant attitude, never let the horse enter your space.
Rule 2: Never accept any attempt to dominate you in any way.
Even the slightest violation of this rule needs to be corrected immediately.
Rule 3: Never use food as the only reward for good behavior
Mix it with the body pat and the ada boy.
Rule #4: Do not give a reward before describing it.
Those ingredients are bribed. Bribes are not for you, it applies to horses. A horse soon knows that if you don't do what you want to do, he will get a treat. Think about it. If the horse doesn't want to follow your rope and you give him a reward that he wants to move, he will accept it because he refuses to do so and gets a reward. He won't get a reward, then say "Wow, she's too good, I should do what she wants to do."
Rule #5: Pay attention to how you interact with his body.
Body language is the only language in which a horse speaks. Be confident and show control in your physical behavior. If you feel unstable, nervous or show up, he will hear your voice loud and clear. He will immediately seize the opportunity to become the leader of two men. He will not be frustrated with this. He is doing what the horse does.
I spend a lot of time with my horse every day. I am by their side on any day. I do this because I want to maintain my leadership and I like them. I have been practicing these five rules, they have paid for myself, and my horse has paid off.
Human love is born to us. Showing love for humanity through affective behavior. We express our love for humanity by giving each other gifts. So it is natural for us to do the same for the animals we like. But really, it is not accepted as human beings accept our feelings. It only makes them confused and makes them feel like they are in control. They don't understand that we do this because we love them, they accept our "love" and understand it as "yielding", it can destroy your relationship with your horse, and the ability of the horse to be kind and obedient.
The importance of body language
Imagine that you spend 24 hours a day, seven days a week, and live together for five years. Imagine that you can't talk, but you must rely entirely on your body to convey what you want. You must understand what others want you to avoid being kicked or bitten. Let's imagine. Think about how you will adapt and be able to explain the slightest movement of the horse around you. This is the horse in the horse that your horse was first trained.
I can see that a person is afraid and even nervous when dealing with their horse. Fear is written entirely on their faces. This is the way they stand nervously. This is how they hold the weapon defensively. If I can see it, believe me, the horse can see it too. They learned the skills of talking in body language in their own lives. When a horse is nervous in front of another horse, it signals. A submissive horse or person cannot lead.
You must lead, otherwise you have to follow. If you follow you, you will be pushed, bitten, kicked, and less respectful than you as a leader.
This article is from the book HERD Human Equine Relationship Development by Tamara Svencer
Orignal From: Handling and preventing spoiled horses
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