A parent recently asked me this question:
"Whenever my daughter asks for my permission, I say, no," she immediately accused me of either not hearing her request or not hearing all of this. The idea of dealing with this situation?"
This is a common problem, although it is packaged into different shapes and sizes. It is always interesting for me that if I say "yes" to such a request, then the young man does not care if I really heard of them. When the answer is "no", this is just a question, isn't it?
This is a strategy for quickly solving listening problems. Unfortunately, this young man still doesn't like one of these two possible answers. If you can, temporarily put down what you are doing and give them yours. from
carry out from
note. Prepare your answers with eye contact and verification requests.
"Joanie, let me see if I understand your question. A group of friends will go to the beach on Friday after school. On the beach. As far as I know, no parents will do this.
Note: No answer is given at this time; this fully confirms Joanie's request. If Joanie says that the facts are correct, then she herself has seen "not listening" as a comeback. If she shares the facts is not true, then Joanie can clarify.
"Joanie, my answer now is" No. "The whole idea made me feel uncomfortable. As a parent. Just know that the answer will not change."
Of course, the children will try to pull you into "Why?" Egypt "Why not?" argument. They built antagonistic muscles on the question "Why?" So why not? "Because their purpose is to change the answer, not to understand the rigor of their parents," why? "In any case, it's generally not important, is it? Redirecting the discussion may help, or even better make a tasteful and hasty [pre-planned] exit. ###
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