This man is really hard to bear.
As this person, become that person. As a man who loves women. As a person who loves babies. As a man so popular, all other men want to be him. As a smart street and smart person in the workplace. As a person who knows you, you cannot be a street man and a work partner at the same time. The street will think you are square. The workplace will think that you are a threat.
Man, where are you suitable?
A person knows his boundaries. A man understands his limitations. If you need help, men are not afraid to ask for help.
This is why I miss my father-in-law. I not only miss his physical existence, I also miss his thoughts:
His inspiring wisdom words.
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He has a strong personality.
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His playful words.
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His all-powerful street savvy character.
I am from the street myself, which is common to us. I grew up with a lot of older cats, so my conversation with my father-in-law is like talking to a friend of an old high school. We shared a lot of love and war stories. We have a lot in common.
He motivated me to use my wisdom more. Not just that. He also inspired me to use my thoughts more.
Almost every time we talk, he will leave me a jewel. Old school and new school. He came back that day #39; fashion, and the latest. The dialogue we held was a dialogue between two very like-minded people. Until today, no one really understands and understands our relationship. nobody.
"This is your world, man. If I hold your hand, I will throw me in." And I will say. "Well, if I hold your hand. I will cut my hand off."
"Either way you slice it. It's still toast."
Whenever we speak, whether by phone or in person, we exchange these types of statements. He would call the house and say a word, "Hey. What are you doing with you, man?" I will say. "Do you know, Cat Dad." I was on the phone, but I couldn't call it. He smiled. And I smiled back to him. He said, "Okay. Sounds good. Don't pretend this move now."
He encouraged me to use my wit more. Not just that. He also inspired me to use my thoughts more. You see, whether you slice it or toast, it doesn't matter. It will be what it will be. I like that much, as I said, it inspired me. So, I started to say. "Either way, win or lose. When you choose, you will give up something."
All our lives are told not to be soft.
When I lost my father-in-law, I lost a lot of it. He is not just the father of his wife. He is a friend of his husband.
Considering losing my friend, I have been hurting me. I never thought that I would open and share this secret with my wife. Not to mention strangers. But this is exactly what happened.
I chose to speak at his funeral. this is my friend. I have to let the world know. I must show and prove that this man has a great side, the beautiful quality of my friend. Tomorrow, I have to share this secret with my wife.
I mean, when do many men open and share secrets with their wives? According to my experience, they have hardly done it. Few people will honestly share some inner thoughts and/or feelings with you.
If he does share, please think that he is special. Look, men like me don't do that kind of thing. Just like expressing emotions in our DNA. Consider, like a little boy, we are always told "man", "enhanced", "boys don't cry".
That speech made me hear the gentle request of my wife asking me to do more things, more of a leader she knows.
For a little boy, this is a lot of pressure. Moreover, for adult men, the pressure is even greater. All our lives are told not to be soft. So, what makes you think we understand how to properly activate our emotions? feelings? ... Eeeeww!
This is where I am confused. That's why I think it's fun to share my feelings. Then I think. This is my wife. This is my best friend. This is my other half. So, I stood on the podium and published the greatest speech I have ever given. I have been talking to my wife, which helps me open my feelings to the audience at the funeral. I am not going to be the star of this show. But what can I say?
That speech helped me open and realized that being a man is more than just a person with noise, muscles and low swing packages. That speech made me hear the gentle request of my wife asking me to do more things, more of a leader she knows.
More leaders? I am the father of two sons. I run a studio. I am the CEO of my own company. I am a comedian who stands up. I am very likely to attract the attention of others. I am the leader, right? Still not true, she wants me to be open, more outspoken, more responsible and decent. She wants me to play a few more times.
As a man, you can demonstrate and prove yourself by taking action and opening up.
I am used to being easygoing and indifferent. I am always the one who avoids any conflicts. If my wife asks if I want to go on holiday, my answer is always, "No matter what. I don't care."
I thought that I was the one who was always depressed. Instead, I found that I was less than the man she wanted, less than the man she knew me. Dude, I thought I knew how to be a man.
Because I am very easy to equip male appendages, I thought I was born to be a man. I think that because I am over 21 years old, the most obvious thing is that I am a man. I even think that because I like women, it is more important than anything in the world, I am sure a man.
I have to think about it again because I am wrong.
Being a man is not just a physical attribute or a power given by God. As a man, you can demonstrate and prove yourself by taking action and opening up.
Being a man is a good fit and public expression of your true self.
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