My morning ritual was almost the same when I got home, the only difference was whether the bed was made. I woke up, brushing my teeth, washing my face, getting dressed, and making coffee. Once the coffee is finished, depending on the weather, I will sit on the sofa or balcony and catch up with what happened overnight. It was no different this morning, except when I flashed a status update of my friends and family on my screen, I didn't enter Facebook. "Compared to all happy thieves #gospel #doyou #themaskyoulivein". It immediately turned my wheel before I finished a cup of coffee.
My friend is an amazing singer/songwriter. I am not sure if this sentence is the basis of the song, but when I sit on the balcony this morning and watch everyone go to work, I think that I am the culprits of this stage. The culprit. If you read my blog or you know me personally, you know that I have some important body image problems, I am studying them, but this is a daily battle. I spent the rest of my life comparing myself with friends, family, and strangers, and I finally had enough at the age of 49.
Comparison is all happy thieves. Because by contrast, I never felt beautiful enough, thin enough, and interesting enough, because I spent so many years comparing myself to those I think are beautiful, fun and thin, I don't know I've been stealing for years. Confidence and security. I looked at my young photos and I saw a completely different person. I saw a beautiful person, she is very smart, she is very interesting, she is very interesting, but she is very scared. When I was young, I didn't see what my old version saw; I was afraid to be myself because I didn't think I was those things.
Comparison is all happy thieves. When you spend years comparing yourself to others, you will never feel good enough; you will never feel that you should get anything, and you will always be satisfied with the crumbs on the table of the person you are comparing.
Comparison is all happy thieves. Comparison makes me settle in life instead of real me. Because I settled down, I ended up building a long-term relationship with a married man. I have never had enough confidence to realize that I deserve more. This requires a very strong self-confident person to force me to realize that I should get more, and now I can experience the feeling of love and acceptance every day.
Comparison is all happy thieves. The comparison prevents me from wearing something that I feel beautiful, comfortable or colorful. I always feel that I am too old or too old, so I wear a lot of black things that are not sleeveless, and I am always very hot and grumpy. I didn't care until this weekend. I am wearing a sleeveless shirt in public. This is a huge improvement for me, I am very comfortable, and the most important thing is that I am very happy.
Comparison is all happy thieves. I started to get grey when I was 24 years old. I came from an early graying family, they looked very beautiful, born with white hair. However, due to my life comparison, I started to dye my hair at the age of 24, because all the 24-year-old children around me have beautiful brown or blond hair. I stopped painting my hair last year. This is the most free thing I have ever done.
When I left my 1920s in the fifties, after the 1930s and 1940s, I was controlling my happiness. Almost overnight, the word "confidence" replaced the word "comparison" and I surrounded myself in those who confirmed my feelings. I am a beautiful 49-year-old woman, I am very bent, I have short hair, white hair, I have non-traditional work, and most importantly, I am very happy.
My point is that once you stop comparing, you will get a reply, which will make you happy. So ditch #themaskyoulivein and #doyou. You are beautiful, you are smart, you are very interesting. Only one of you, it is perfect.
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