It seems that everyone on the planet has seven levels of growth. People at different levels will behave and motivate in different ways. The seven levels [from lowest to highest] are:
- survive
- relationship
- Self-esteem
- Transformation
- Internal cohesion
- Make a difference
- service
Although a person will gradually move up seven levels, they can access any or all levels in any day.
The first three are the hardest to pass, but once a person passes the 4th level transition, the rest of the journey is much easier.
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Lower level [1 to 3] Focus on the physiological needs of our existence; our physical and emotional needs for safety and our emotional needs for self-esteem. These levels focus on our personal interests - to meet the needs of ourselves. This is a field of dual reality and the focus of human attention and efforts. Some people will spend a lifetime at these levels.
Unfortunately, these levels are very short. I mean that nothing at these levels is enough. When you get what you want, you will immediately start looking for the next thing. Abraham Maslow believes that these things are a "lack of" need. This means we can't meet this demand, but if we don't, we will feel anxious.
At these lower levels, we are constrained by the expectations of others and tend to be consistent and loyal to the groups we identify with. If our lives are focused on meeting the needs of the first three levels, we will live a self-centered and shallow life.
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Fourth level Transforming - shifting from self-interest to common interest. This is where the self learns to let go of fear so that it can be integrated into the soul.
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Higher level, [5 to 7] focus on our spiritual needs; need to find meaning in our lives, need to make a difference in the world, and need services. These levels are about the common good and the need to satisfy the soul. Abraham Maslow called these high-level ideologies "growth" demand. Meeting these needs does not make them disappear; instead, it brings a deeper level of motivation and a commitment to meeting demand.
You must have one level to continue to the next level. Even if we have learned how to be a self-fulfilling individual, we still face the fear of bringing us back to a lower level of consciousness. This may be a restrictive belief or a situation that has rooted us at one of these lower levels.
Let's take a look at each level in turn.
Level 1 - Survival
The first level of awareness is related to the basic chakras and focuses on meeting our physiological needs for safety and safety. We will master this level by developing the practical skills needed to ensure our physical survival.
The negative aspects at this level are:
- This is the truth of fear. We are worried that it is not enough and not safe.
- We can experience a huge inertia. People at this level would rather stick to what they have and then lose anything by changing the adventure. So for some people, this is a level that is difficult to cancel. People at this level don't like change. They think that the way things are kept is good for things.
On the plus side, this level is a wonderful experience when you feel safe and seem to belong to you.
Level 2 - Relationship
Once our physical needs are met, we will enter the second level of consciousness [related to the navel wheel] and strive to meet our social needs. We seek to satisfy our emotional needs for love and belonging. We seek the love and respect of family and friends. If this is not possible, we will be looking for it socially.
The beginning of our self can be experienced at this level, and we are still very self-centered. We master this level by developing the interpersonal skills we need to make us feel safe, loved and feel like we belong. For example, if you often feel that you are not loved, or if you need to find a true soul mate to be happy, then you will have a hard time moving away from this level. It's easy to see our literary and artistic works and see how many people are working at this level.
The negative aspects at this level are:
- We feel anxious because we are not accepted, and feel that we are not adapted.
- We may manipulate others and are neither tolerant nor impatient with them.
On the positive side, this level brings the feeling of being loved, the sense of belonging and health.
Level 3 - Self-esteem
At the third level of consciousness [related to the solar nerve chakras], we focus on meeting the needs we feel good about ourselves. We are proud of who we are and who have positive self-esteem.
We will start to want to stand out from the crowd we wanted to belong to. We begin to discover ourselves; our capabilities and limitations. We are aware of our limited knowledge and are satisfied with it [at a lower level, we don't know we don't know it all]. We now understand that we have the ability to change ourselves and the environment.
Time begins to bring us mobility and seems to expand and contract our feelings. When we are happy, it seems to fly, and it will delay when we are scared.
We will master this level by developing the emotional skills we need so that we can respect and feel ourselves in all situations. We need to develop positive self-worth and pride.
When we feel that we are neither respected nor good enough, we will have a negative impact on this level.
On the positive side, this level of consciousness brings:
- The pursuit of excellence, success and professional acceptance.
- A positive sense of self-worth.
Control the level of drama
This is a way for people to control drama as an energy source from others. The four major control dramas that people play are:
- "Poor me" control drama: This person gets energy from others by sympathizing with the dilemmas and ills they perceive. If this is you, you will not give up guilt and often try to put it on others. You are a martyr or victim who can play through illness or other living conditions. If you have one of these people in your life, the best thing you can do is to "call them."
- Intimidator control drama: This person bullies you; threatens you with body language and reminds you of failure. They usually don't even have to say anything. They can make you feel as if you depend on them to survive. When you become obedient or dependent on them; that is when they get energy from you. The best way to deal with the people who play this kind of control drama is to fight against them.
- Interrogator control drama: This person uses continuous and powerful questions to extract your energy. This is very subtle. You think they are very interested in you, so you will focus on answering their questions [they will get your energy]. This person can even feel good, although you feel the need to answer their questions. The best way to deal with these people is to politely avoid answering their questions or answering their questions.
- '超然'Control drama: This person keeps you a certain distance and wants to look mysterious. They will remove themselves from social situations so that others feel obligated to "check them." This is how they get energy. The best way to deal with these people is to let them go.
In all these controlled dramatic situations, attention is focused; it is the source of energy. People who play the control drama are looking for their attention and energy. People who fall into lower levels experience this constant energy drag every day. When a person leaves the lower level, their energy comes from a collective consciousness, and they no longer need to seek it from others.
Level 4 - Transformation
The fourth level is the transition from the lower level to the higher level. It is similar to a part of the sand timer and it is difficult for people to pass through. For some people, this effort has proven to be too much, and they are constantly cycling from this level back to the early levels. Continuous efforts are required to keep this level long enough to enter the fifth level.
The fourth level of consciousness is about the transition from self to service. We master this level by learning to release our fears [conscious and subconscious] from the first three levels. By doing so, we begin to combine the needs of ourselves with the needs of the soul. Most people at this level will experience forgiveness and acceptance.
To achieve this level, we need commitment, perseverance and conviction. Sometimes this can be a very uncomfortable level because you will question all your beliefs and question what else is in life. You may even find that you are not the one you think of; it is brought about by your newly discovered sincerity and true wishes. You are thinking about what you are doing to make you happy... If the answer is ' no ', you are starting to look for this happy journey. Our focus is to change.
People at this level begin to live according to their personal values and beliefs. The implementation process has started very well, unlike at a lower level, we accept change.
In this transitional phase, some people want to abandon everything in their lives; all their property and relationships. The danger is to get yourself back to the first level and start the process again. Asking how to change something that is already there, rather than throwing away everything, may be more effective.
This is a very exciting stage where people can "rebirth" and want to share all of them...
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